Tuesday, September 9, 2014

1 Samuel 18:8 Jealousy and Envy Destroy Us

Then Saul was very angry, and the saying displeased him, and he said, ‘They have ascribed to David ten thousands, and to me they have ascribed only thousands. Now what more can he have but the kingdom?’”

1 Samuel 18:8


David had defeated Goliath. The Israelites were filled with joy. They sang and danced to meet King Saul. “Now it happened as they were coming home, when David was returning from the slaughter of the Philistine, that the women had come out of all the cities of Israel, singing and dancing to meet King Saul, with tambourines with joy, and with musical instruments. So the women sang as they danced, and said ‘Saul has slain his thousands, and David his ten thousands.’ Then Saul was very angry, and the saying displeased him, and he said, ‘They have ascribed to David ten thousands, and to me they have ascribed only thousands. Now what more can he have but the kingdom?’ So Saul eyed David from that day forward” (1 Samuel 18:6-9). So we can see from these passages that instead of having a grateful and thankful heart because the Lord had delivered the Israelites through David, Saul focused on what he considered was a slight to himself. His self-focus eventually destroyed him. Self-focus can also destroy us. We are going to look at the two main means of self-focus that Saul had. They are envy and jealousy. Envy is a discontent or resentment because of another’s success, advantages, or superiority. Jealousy is resentment against a rival, a person enjoying success or advantage. It affects their feelings, disposition, state and mood. Their focus remains on themselves and their slight instead of on God and His greatness. God tells us in His Word that He abandoned the people that refused to acknowledge Him. He abandoned them to their evil minds and let them do things that never should be done. Romans 1:29  says that “There lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, fighting, deception, malicious behavior, and gossip.” He goes on to say in Romans 1:30 that “They are backstabbers, haters of God, insolent, proud, and boastful. They are forever inventing new ways of sinning and are disobedient to their parents. They refuse to understand, break their promises, and are heartless and unforgiving. They are fully aware of God’s death penalty for those who do these things, yet they go right ahead and do them anyway. And, worse yet, they encourage others to do them, too.” As you can tell … they have no respect for the Lord and no healthy fear of Him. God’s Word tells us that when we “follow the desires of your sinful nature, your lives will produce these evil results: sexual immorality, impure thoughts, eagerness for lustful pleasure, idolatry, participation in demonic activities, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, divisions, the feeling that everyone is wrong except those in your own little group, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other kinds of sin. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God” (Galatians 5:19-21). God wants us to inherit the Kingdom of God. God wants us to have the Holy Spirit controlling our lives. He wants His fruits in us, being active and alive. They are: “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self control” (Galatians 5:22-23). One way to be wise is to learn from other people instead of finding out yourself the hard way. We can learn from King Saul not to get jealous and envious of others. It destroyed him. It can destroy us. What can we do about it? Confess your jealousy and envy to the Lord. Be honest with Him. He already knows. Confess it as sin and then ask Him to take away those wrong feelings inside and replace them with His love instead. He is faithful and He will do it. You will have a clean heart and you will inherit the Kingdom of God. Praise God for that.

Father, we thank You for the written Word. We thank You for what it can reveal to us. Lord, we come to You and ask You to be with us. Help us to learn from Your Word. May we examine our own hearts. Is it full of jealousy or envy? If it is, may we confess it as sin to You and may You take out all the wrong feelings inside and replace it with Your love. In Jesus’ name we pray. Amen.

Kimberly Lenz, Care Ministry Coordinator
Solid Rock Community Church

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